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JOURNEY OF LIFE AND LOSSES

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We all have lost someone in our life who was very dear to us. They might have gone from our vision but they stay in our heart for eternity. Our memories associated with them bring them back to us. Hence, we are never really separated.  life can be compared to train. We all have destinations and checkpoints in our life and so does train. We have stations and changes in our routes during our course of life. At birth, we boarded the train and met our parents and due to our innocence, we always believe that they will be at our side throughout our journey. But at some station, our parents will step down from our train and we become alone. With time, other people come on our train, they might be our friends or even the love of our life. Many will step down and leave a permanent vacuum, and some people will go so unnoticed that we won't even realize that they vacated their seats. This journey will be full of sorrows, joy, fantasy, expectations, hellos, goodbyes, and farewells. But what is...
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THE CHASE OF PERFECT LIFE

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What is perfect life? Well by definition it means flawless life. Is it even possible? Before reading, I would want you to change your definition of perfect life. Perfect life means little joys that we get every day amidst thousand of problems, and nothing really in life is a problem, it's a possibility.   Perfect life is not concrete, it varies with people. What might be perfect for one, may not be for another. WHAT A NORMAL LIFE OF A PERSON LOOKS LIKE? - birth  - crawl, and eventually walk - Pre-school, ABCD, Poems  - School, friends, play, homework - Studies, exams, holidays  - Distinction  - Graduation, fun, Outings - Post-graduation and dreams  - Job, parents proud - House, car, etc - Marriage, Romance, honeymoon - Trips  - kid, and those sleepless nights - Life insurance, savings, future - Kids education, school, tuitions  - Kid independent, his/her marriage - Retirement and pension - Temples, visiting people, and our kids - Death and buried....
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SELF DOUBTS AND FEAR OF BEING JUDGED

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We are all anxious when we start something which we haven't put our hands on. Even when I started this blog I was worried about the fact that what would people think about my blog. But then I realized the need to overcome my fear. At most, what will happen? People will either give constructive criticism or a bunch of spineless people will give remarks for something that they can't even do.  This life is yours. You are living your life for yourself and not for anyone. Don't let the fear of being judged stop you from being yourself. We are not supposed to be clowns of the world and let them decide what we are capable of. Greatness always lies beyond those fears. In the beginning, nothing really goes perfect but with time you can attain mastery over it. I would want you to say positive affirmations every day to yourself: - I am beautiful/handsome and I love myself - I can achieve anything I want - I am worthy - I am proud of myself - I am grateful for what I have  - I believe ...
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THE WORLD OF PERSPECTIVES

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    How often do you feel that things are not going right with me? why do all problems come at me? and questions like that. Well, I am sure, you must be getting them at some point in your life. But not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path. Dear viewer, it all comes down to perspective. If we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change. Life is all about perspective and we all need to see the positive side of our predicament.  let's take an example, say the number 6 is drawn on the floor, and two people are standing between the number next to each other. One sees the number 6 and the other sees 9. They are both right but it might be wrong in the eyes of the person who is looking at it from a different view. Every coin has two sides, and it is important to always look at the silver lining. let's take some examples Let's assume a girl Jessy, who always complains about the way she looks. She doesn't like her face and blames G...
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LIVE THE MOMENT

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Are you haunted by your past? Are you living with fear about your future? But by doing so, aren't u wasting your present? Dear viewer, it might sound cliche but we forget to live the present. We do need to realize the importance of clearing our minds. We all have tons of garbage stored in it. Once we remove the garbage, we get to live in present.  Before giving an exam, we often say - "I am getting scared?", "I wonder what will happen if I don't make the cutoff ", and several questions like that. But by doing so you are not enjoying life, you are living in fear and have an endless amount of insecurities. And ask yourself - " Does it do any good to me ?"  well sure it doesn't.  It's extremely important to see and observe the little things in life, and for that, I would want you to go out alone and spend good 45 minutes observing. That would give your mind the peace it wants. And once you are done with this activity, you will realize that you...
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