THE WORLD OF PERSPECTIVES

    How often do you feel that things are not going right with me? why do all problems come at me? and questions like that. Well, I am sure, you must be getting them at some point in your life. But not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path.

Dear viewer, it all comes down to perspective. If we change the way we look at things, the things we look at change. Life is all about perspective and we all need to see the positive side of our predicament. 

let's take an example, say the number 6 is drawn on the floor, and two people are standing between the number next to each other. One sees the number 6 and the other sees 9. They are both right but it might be wrong in the eyes of the person who is looking at it from a different view.

Every coin has two sides, and it is important to always look at the silver lining. let's take some examples

Let's assume a girl Jessy, who always complains about the way she looks. She doesn't like her face and blames God for this every day. This, in turn, becomes the perspective of Jessy about her.

The perspective of Y- Jessy is such a talented girl. She sings beautifully and her dance moves leave everyone awestruck. She has got several medals and is the topper of her school. I wish I could be like her.

The perspective of Z - no one is perfect and that's we are humans and not robots. We should be grateful for whatever things we have.

Jessy is complaining, Y is praising her because of her talents but deep inside he might be doubting his talents too because of her whereas the answer with most wisdom is given by Z. He combines the perspectives of Jessy and Y and molds into a better conclusion.

That's why it is said nothing is right or wrong. In this world of billions of people, there are billions of views. All rules in societies are made by people's beliefs and beliefs are made by perspective. The thing on which most people's perspectives believe becomes a rule in our world. A person in the stone age might find their clothing normal, but in our current generation, it might not be accepted.  

How to find positives? 

say u have a person whom u don't like ( likeness itself is a perspective )

1- Change the angle and look at it from a neutral side. 

2- Forget the fact that u don't like him/her 

3- Try your best to see some good in him/her( good itself is a perspective, think about it yourself )

4- Your view changes

There will be hurdles, but as said always see what good I can get from it. Being left out or being lonely is bad but change the angle. You will realize that it makes you independent, it makes you prepared to handle your own problems, it makes you think and observe things and be calmer. That's how you play with perspectives and change your whole demeanor towards it. Life wants to give a lesson every time something comes up and it's your responsibility to find it.

A rose has its beauty with thorns, it's up to us to decide to appreciate its appearance or see the thorns. Your perspective can be your prison as well as your passport. Change ur perspective and your current problems will become opportunities.